Despite multiple sightings and reports suggesting a new romance with John Mayer, influencer Kat Stickler has explicitly stated she is ‘single.’ Her recent TikTok video, offering a humorous yet firm denial, challenges the widely circulated dating rumors and provides a fresh perspective for fans.
The internet has been abuzz with speculation surrounding TikTok influencer Kat Stickler and music icon John Mayer. Weeks of rumors, fueled by reported date nights and fan theories, reached a turning point when Stickler herself decided to clarify her relationship status. Her recent declaration has left many wondering what truly transpired between the two stars.
The Un-Cuffed Confession: Kat Stickler’s TikTok Clarification
On October 14, Kat Stickler, known for her engaging social media content, posted a TikTok video that directly addressed the swirling rumors. In the clip, an off-camera voice asks, “Kat, are you single?” to which she responds with a smile, “Um, yeah, I already told you that.” She humorously elaborated on the signs of a breakup, pointing to her recently cut hair as a “cry for help” and a “tell-tale sign of a relationship gone bad,” according to People.
This candid response from the 30-year-old influencer offers a direct counter-narrative to the widespread reports that had suggested a blossoming romance with the 47-year-old singer-songwriter. Her playful yet firm denial served as a definitive update for her curious fanbase.
Tracing the Rumors: Date Nights and Deuxmoi Reports
Speculation about Stickler and Mayer began to intensify following reports of them being spotted together on multiple occasions in New York City. On October 12, the gossip blog Deuxmoi first reported that the pair had attended a members-only club on Friday, October 10. The following night, they were reportedly seen at Flyfish Club, further fueling dating rumors. An image of the two sitting together at a private club also circulated, adding visual evidence to the claims.
Prior to these direct sightings, fans had already been dissecting Stickler‘s social media. In a September 28 TikTok video, she teased a date night with a “mystery man,” showing only his chin down. Fans immediately began to speculate whether this man was John Mayer, noting features like a slightly greying goatee and black polo shirt. However, this early speculation was met with debate among followers, with some pointing out discrepancies in facial hair and chin structure compared to Mayer, as detailed by Page Six.
The ‘Actively Pursuing’ Narrative: What Sources Claimed
Amidst the public sightings, reports from various outlets, including Us Weekly, offered further insights into the alleged burgeoning relationship. Sources claimed that John Mayer had “sought her out and pursued her,” showing active interest by “inviting her places and texting her often.” One insider noted that Stickler had recently ended a previous relationship and was “interested in John” and “having fun” with the “Your Body Is a Wonderland” singer. However, these sources also suggested that Stickler did not view it as a “serious relationship” at the time.
Relationship Philosophies: Kat and John’s Stances on Love
Both Kat Stickler and John Mayer have publicly shared their perspectives on relationships and marriage, adding another layer to the dating speculation.
John Mayer’s Desire for Marriage
In June, Mayer revealed during SiriusXM’s SmartLess Live that he was single, humorously declaring himself “a catch.” He openly admitted his desire to get married, stating, “Every girlfriend would be a potential wife at this point,” and emphasized that he “would not date someone if it didn’t have the upward mobility of becoming a marriage.” This suggests a more serious intention for long-term commitment in his romantic pursuits.
Kat Stickler’s Redefined View of Marriage
Stickler, who married her ex-husband at 24, also offered her thoughts on marriage in an October 10 TikTok video. She expressed a desire to “reframe our idea of this goal to walk down the aisle,” suggesting that the true goal should be “to walk in alignment with who we are and what we value.” Stickler passionately articulated that marriage is “not this prize to be won. It’s not what finally makes you whole,” emphasizing self-love and personal growth “whether someone is walking beside me or not.”
A Look Back: Prior Relationships of Both Stars
Both Kat Stickler and John Mayer have prominent dating histories that have been topics of public interest.
John Mayer’s High-Profile Romances
Mayer is well-known for his past relationships with a string of A-list celebrities, including:
- Jennifer Aniston
- Jessica Simpson
- Taylor Swift (who is rumored to have written “Dear John” about him)
- Katy Perry
- Minka Kelly
- Jennifer Love Hewitt
After his 2014 split from Katy Perry, Mayer largely kept his love life private, reportedly gravitating toward women with lower public profiles.
Kat Stickler’s Recent Splits
Stickler‘s most recent known relationship was with Bachelorette alum Jason Tartick. They announced their “amicable” split in October 2024 after six months of dating. Tartick shared on Instagram that he loves “hard with all my heart and fall fast,” but sometimes “it doesn’t work out.”
Before Tartick, Stickler was married to Mike Stickler, with whom she shares a daughter, MK. The couple gained prominence through their TikTok videos during the early days of the pandemic but announced their divorce in early 2021. Kat has since continued her career as a solo content creator while co-parenting MK.
The Takeaway for Fans
Kat Stickler‘s direct statement about her single status provides a clear update amid the flurry of John Mayer dating rumors. While reports of their back-to-back date nights sparked considerable excitement and discussion, Stickler‘s humorous TikTok video suggests that, for now, she remains “un-cuffed.” The situation highlights the constant ebb and flow of celebrity and influencer romance, often playing out in the public eye and subject to intense fan scrutiny.
