Oscar-nominated actress Penelope Milford, celebrated for her poignant role in Hal Ashby’s ‘Coming Home,’ has passed away at 77, leaving behind a profound legacy in film, television, and stage.
The entertainment world is mourning the loss of Penelope Milford, the esteemed Oscar-nominated actress who captivated audiences with her powerful performances across stage and screen. Milford died on Tuesday, October 14, 2025, at the age of 77, in an assisted living facility in Saugerties, New York. Her death was confirmed by her brother, Doug Milford, though the cause of death has not yet been publicly disclosed, as reported by People.
The Defining Role: ‘Coming Home’ and an Oscar Nod
Born in St. Louis, Missouri, on March 23, 1948, Penelope Milford rose to prominence for her indelible portrayal of Vi Munson in Hal Ashby’s critically acclaimed 1978 film, ‘Coming Home.’ In this seminal work, Milford played the roommate of Jane Fonda’s Sally Hyde and the sister of Bill Munson, a Vietnam veteran grappling with severe emotional trauma. Her nuanced performance earned her an Academy Award nomination for Best Supporting Actress, placing her alongside co-stars Jane Fonda and Jon Voight, who were also nominated for their roles in the powerful anti-war drama.
‘Coming Home’ resonated deeply with audiences, depicting the profound and often devastating impact of the Vietnam War on American families and soldiers. Milford’s contribution was essential to the film’s emotional core, showcasing her ability to convey complex emotions with authenticity and restraint.
A Versatile Career Across Film, Television, and Stage
Beyond her iconic role in ‘Coming Home,’ Milford built a diverse career that spanned over two decades, showcasing her talent in various genres. Her film credits include:
- ‘Maidstone’ (1970): Her debut in Norman Mailer’s experimental cult film.
- ‘Valentino’ (1977): As silent-film star Lorna Sinclair.
- ‘Endless Love’ (1981): Portraying Pauline Fleming, the fiancée of Don Murray’s character.
- ‘Heathers’ (1988): A memorable role as high school guidance counselor Pauline Fleming in the cult classic.
- Other notable films include ‘The Last Word,’ ‘Blood Link,’ ‘The Golden Seal,’ and her last known role as Anna Carroll in ‘Night of the Lawyers’ (1997).
Milford’s impact was equally felt on the stage. She was a respected figure in the New York theater scene, performing in:
- An Off-Broadway production of ‘Long Time Coming and a Long Time Gone’ (1971), where she co-starred with a young Richard Gere.
- The Broadway cast of ‘Lenny’ (1972), a play about comedian Lenny Bruce.
- The musical ‘Shenandoah’ (1975), for which she originated the role of Jenny Anderson and earned a Drama Desk Award nomination for Best Featured Actress.
- Additional theater performances include ‘Felix’ (1974), ‘Fishing’ (1981), ‘Territorial Rites’ (1983), and ‘The Second Hottest Show in Town.’
Her television career also boasted significant roles. She appeared in a 1976 episode of ‘The Blue Knight’ and starred alongside cinematic legends like Henry Fonda and Cloris Leachman in the Emmy-winning TV play ‘The Oldest Living Graduate’ (1980). She also played a part in ‘Rosie: The Rosemary Clooney Story’ (1982) and earned praise for her performance opposite Farrah Fawcett in the landmark TV film ‘The Burning Bed’ (1984), which addressed domestic violence, as detailed by Variety.
Life Beyond the Spotlight and Personal Tributes
In the 1990s, after stepping away from the intense demands of Hollywood, Milford dedicated her time to sharing her knowledge and passion for acting. She taught at film schools in Chicago and Minneapolis, nurturing new generations of talent. Her dedication to her craft continued in her local community of Saugerties, where she performed at the local theater and lent her voice to the Bard Symphonic Chorus.
Penelope Milford was preceded in death by her younger brother, actor and singer Richard Kim Milford, who passed away in 1980 at the age of 37 due to heart failure. She is survived by her brother, Douglas Milford, and her sister, Candace Saint. Her enduring contributions to film, television, and theater, marked by her depth, grace, and unwavering commitment, continue to inspire fellow actors and filmmakers. Fans of classic cinema will remember her powerful presence and the indelible characters she brought to life.