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Kylie Kelce opened up on the Thursday, Aug. 28 episode of her Not Gonna Lie podcast about how she sees the order that her four daughters were born in impacting their personalities
She also opened up about which one of her daughters she feels the need to warn guests about when they come over
Podcaster Kylie also noted the ways that her parenting style has changed with each of her four children
Kylie Kelce’s daughters’ personalities are lining up with their birth order.
On Thursday, Aug. 28, the mother of four, 33, opened up on her Not Gonna Lie podcast about how the personalities of the four daughters she shares with their father, Jason Kelce, align with their birth order.
“Birth order theory proposes that the order in which a person is born within their family, such as being the oldest, middle, youngest or an only child shapes their personality behavior and even life outcomes due to differences in parenting and family dynamics,” Emma Samocki, producer of Kelce’s podcast, explained on the show.
To which Kylie responded in the affirmative, agreeing that she’s seen elements of birth order theory play out in real life with her four daughters. Together, Kylie and Jason are parents to daughters Wyatt, 5, Elliotte, 4, Bennett, 2, and Finnley, almost 5 months.
“First of all, that’s true,” Kylie said of birth order theory’s definition. “I know that we are parenting Benny differently than we parented Wyatt because Wyatt had my undivided attention until she was 18 months old.”
Kylie explains that, around a year ago, she posted a video of two of her daughters, Wyatt and Elliotte, decorating cookies together on Instagram, asking followers if the way they were decorating cookies was a “good representation of birth order traits.”
“Wyatt was going individual sprinkle onto her iced cookie,” she laughed of the cute incident. “And Ellie took both cups of sprinkles that were available to her for decorating, dumped them onto her cookie, patted them in, and then licked the extra sprinkles off of her hand.”
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Jason (left) and Kylie Kelce with three of their daughters.
Kylie went on to explain how she sees birth order traits showing up in her four daughters, beyond just their cookie decorating abilities.
“Really the rule abiding is funny to me because she herself wants to abide by the rules, but she will try to talk her sisters into doing s— that she would like to do, which is funny to me,” Kylie laughed of how she sees her firstborn daughter Wyatt’s personality aligning with typical firstborn traits.
Meanwhile, Kylie explains that both Ellie and “Bennie,” are independent, social and loyal as the family’s middle children.
“Ellie has also been trying to do the peacekeeping thing recently where if Bennie gets really, really upset because mom and dad have said no, which really ruins Bennie’s day,” she explained. “I will tell you, us saying no is just the f—— end. It’s the end of the world. But Ellie has been trying to make it better. So she, for instance, Bennie has been told, no. You may not have a sixth piece of chocolate today. And Ellie will be like, ‘I’ll go get your paci, Bennie.'”
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Kylie also said that since Finn, the couple’s youngest daughter who was born on March 30, 2025, is only 5 months old, she’s also noticed Bennie’s youngest child characteristics coming out.
“I’m guessing Bennie is gonna fit this to a T. So let’s see what’s going on here. Here we go. According to birth order, the youngest child is charming and humorous. Bennie. Holy s—, Bennie.”
“Less rule-oriented,” she laughed, reading from a list of youngest child traits. “Oh my God. Yes. Wow.”
Kylie went on to reveal that she recently had to have a talk with Jason about Bennie’s behavior.
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Kylie Kelce (center) with her daughters
“Like, ‘Hey, she’s gonna turn into a butt if you don’t start cracking down,’ ” she said. “And that’s just because she’s cute. And then you have this moment of you look at your 5 and your 4 year old, and you think to yourself, they’re not always gonna be that little.”
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Kylie also agree that as far as youngest child traits go, Bennie is as “charming as can be.”
“When people come in our house, I literally say to them, watch out for that one because she will manipulate the absolute crap out of you,” she laughed.
“She does it to Jason. She does it to my dad. She does it to literally anyone who will look in her direction. If you are in our house for more than, let’s say, 10 minutes, she is going to try and work you over for something.”
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