Rachel Recchia’s revelation that she reported fellow Bachelorette alum Bryan Abasolo for “domestic terrorism” on Hinge isn’t just a punchline—it’s a stark reminder of how dating apps handle safety reports and why Bachelor nation remains obsessed with its alumni’s personal lives.
The story began simply: Rachel Recchia, former Bachelorette star, was swiping on Hinge when she came across the profile of Bryan Abasolo, better known as “Dr. Abs” and ex-husband of fellow Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay. Rather than just swipe left, Recchia took action—reporting Abasolo for “domestic terrorism” in what she later described as a bid to remove him from the app.
“One year ago, me and Rachel were at dinner,” Recchia said on the Bachelor Happy Hour podcast. “And this is when I was in my Hinge era. And I was swiping on Hinge and I found Bryan on Hinge. I reported him for domestic terrorism. And that man is probably still on the app to this day. I need people to know that I’m out here doing the work.”
This tongue-in-cheek report has since gone viral, but it raises serious questions about how dating apps handle user safety complaints—especially those involving potential domestic violence.
The Reality of Hinge’s Reporting System
While Recchia’s “domestic terrorism” label may have been hyperbolic, it points to a gap in dating app moderation. Hinge does not currently offer a specific reporting category for domestic terrorism or domestic violence. Instead, users who wish to report such issues must navigate broader menus.
If a user selects “Someone is in danger” in Hinge’s reporting options, one of the subsequent reasons is “This person is posting about terrorism.” However, there is no dedicated pathway for reporting a user based on a history of domestic abuse or violence Entertainment Weekly.
This lack of specificity can make it difficult for survivors of domestic abuse to flag dangerous individuals on dating platforms. Recchia’s report, while framed as a joke, inadvertently highlights how current systems may not adequately address the nuances of interpersonal violence.
History of Bryan Abasolo and Rachel Lindsay’s Relationship
To understand why Recchia felt compelled to report Abasolo, it helps to review his history with Rachel Lindsay. The couple met on season 13 of The Bachelorette in 2017, where Abasolo proposed to Lindsay. They married in August 2019 after two years of engagement.
Their marriage lasted four years before Abasolo announced their split in January 2024 via Instagram. “After more than 4 years of marriage, Rachel and I have made the difficult decision to part ways and start anew,” he wrote at the time Entertainment Weekly.
The divorce was finalized later that year, leaving both alumni navigating post-split life in the public eye. Lindsay has since spoken openly about her healing process, while Abasolo has returned to his chiropractic practice and, evidently, dating apps.
Rachel Lindsay’s Response: “Not Shocking”
When Recchia recounted the story to Lindsay on Bachelor Happy Hour, the former Bachelorette wasn’t surprised to hear Abasolo was back on Hinge. “I put myself out there, but I’ve never been on a dating app, but he was on the apps before we got together,” Lindsay explained. “So it’s not shocking that he was on the apps after. That’s his form of dating. So it doesn’t shock me.”
Lindsay’s matter-of-fact reaction underscores a normalization of dating app usage among Bachelor alumni—even shortly after a high-profile divorce. Her focus has since shifted to writing a book about her experiences, noting that she’s “written quite a bit, but I’m not done by any means.”
Why Bachelor Nation Can’t Look Away
This incident isn’t just about one Reality TV star reporting another; it’s a case study in how Bachelor fans remain deeply invested in the personal lives of its participants years after their seasons air. Recchia and Lindsay, both from recent seasons of the franchise, represent a new wave of alumni whose every move is scrutinized.
Fan theories about potential sequels, reunions, or crossovers thrive on social media, and stories like Abasolo’s return to dating apps fuel endless speculation. The combination of genuine concern (could someone with Abasolo’s history pose a risk?) and franchise loyalty makes such headlines irresistible.
The Bigger Picture: Dating App Safety in the Spotlight
Recchia’s “domestic terrorism” report, while likely intended as humor, touches on a serious issue: the inadequacy of current reporting mechanisms on platforms like Hinge. The incident has sparked discussion about whether dating apps need more granular reporting options for user safety.
As dating apps continue to be primary venues for meeting potential partners, ensuring they are safe for all users—particularly those who may have experienced domestic violence—is paramount. This viral moment could pressure companies like Hinge to expand their safety features beyond generic categories.
For now, Recchia’s report remains a cautionary tale: what starts as a playful swipe can spark a conversation about systemic change. And for Bachelor fans, it’s another chapter in the never-ending saga of how reality TV alumni navigate life after the show.
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