Jennifer Lopez recently shared a “surreal” encounter with legendary Barbra Streisand, revealing Streisand’s surprising question about handling fame. This interaction highlights the vastly different, yet equally impactful, journeys both superstars have had with public recognition, from Streisand’s early longing for celebrity to Lopez’s initial shock at losing anonymity.
For fans of classic Hollywood and modern pop culture alike, a recent anecdote from Jennifer Lopez has sparked fascinating discussions about the nature of celebrity. Speaking on SiriusXM’s The Howard Stern Show, Lopez recounted a “surreal” meeting with the iconic Barbra Streisand decades ago, an encounter that left her “dumbstruck and starstruck at the same time.” The surprising twist? Streisand, a living legend, turned to Lopez and asked, “How do you do it… the fame?”
Jennifer Lopez: The Sudden Onslaught of Stardom After ‘Selena’
For Lopez, the journey to global recognition was meteoric, particularly after her breakthrough role in the 1997 biopic ‘Selena’. Prior to this, she had accumulated television and film credits, but ‘Selena’ propelled her to an entirely new echelon of celebrity. Lopez vividly recalls the first time she was recognized on the street after the film’s release, describing herself as “so freaked out.”
She shared with Variety that she initially thought the person calling her name was someone she knew. Upon turning around to a stranger’s excited face, the realization hit her: “I was like, ‘Oh my god, I’m not anonymous anymore. I can’t just walk down the street. Like, if somebody calls me, it’s not somebody I know, it’s somebody I don’t know.'” This moment marked a significant adjustment, transitioning her from “Jenny from the Block” to a globally recognized superstar. The role of Selena Quintanilla not only garnered Lopez universal praise and a Golden Globe nomination but also made her the first Latina actress to earn a staggering $1 million for a film role.
Over the years, Lopez has come to embrace these fan interactions, viewing them as a form of “love.” Her connection to ‘Selena’ remains profound; on the film’s 25th anniversary in 2022, she paid tribute on Instagram, stating, “This movie means so much to me… Selena and her family mean so much to me, and I was so lucky to be chosen to play her.”
Barbra Streisand: The Pursuit of Fame and the Paradox of the ‘Streisand Effect’
In contrast to Lopez’s initial shock, Barbra Streisand’s early career reveals a yearning for the very fame that J.Lo found daunting. As a 19-year-old performing on Broadway in ‘I Can Get It For You Wholesale’, Streisand was earning critical acclaim but felt she hadn’t achieved true success because she wasn’t “famous.” She humorously recalled to an interviewer that she “couldn’t get anybody to wait on me” at Bergdorf Goodman, adding, “I’ll be a success when I’m famous enough to get waited on at Bergdorf Goodman.”
Streisand, who even dropped an ‘a’ from her first name because she “hates the name Barbara,” cultivated an image as “the odd one” and “the wise guy” during her formative years. Her drive to excel was a “compulsion,” pushing her to be the best in whatever she pursued, whether singing, dancing, or acting. For Streisand, fame was a clear marker of professional achievement and recognition.
The irony of her later career is encapsulated in the phenomenon known as the ‘Streisand Effect’. Coined in 2005 by Mike Masnick of Techdirt, this effect describes the unintended consequence where attempts to hide, remove, or censor information instead increase its public awareness. Its origin traces back to Streisand’s 2003 lawsuit against a photographer to suppress an aerial photo of her Malibu residence, which was part of a public project documenting coastal erosion. Before the lawsuit, the image had been downloaded only six times, but public awareness of the case led to over 420,000 visits to the site in the following month, making it widely visible.
In her 2023 autobiography, My Name Is Barbra, Streisand reflected on this “mistake,” clarifying that her concern was security-related rather than the photo itself. “My issue was never with the photo,” she wrote, “it was only about the use of my name attached to the photo.” This later perspective offers a deeper understanding of the pressures even established icons face regarding privacy and safety, echoing J.Lo’s initial feeling of losing anonymity.
A Shared Understanding: The Unspoken Realities of Superstardom
The interaction between Jennifer Lopez and Barbra Streisand, spanning decades and different eras of fame, offers a compelling look into the realities of superstardom. Lopez, who has covered Streisand’s songs and confessed her deep admiration for the Yentl star, also shared valuable advice Streisand once gave her about acting: to always seek “five good scenes” in a script that audiences won’t forget.
This exchange underscores a mutual respect between two powerhouses who, despite their divergent paths to prominence, understand the unique challenges and triumphs that come with living life in the public eye. Streisand’s question about handling fame, posed to a younger, diamond-adorned Lopez, was not just about celebrity but perhaps about the relentless scrutiny and loss of personal space that defines their extraordinary careers.
Looking Ahead for J.Lo
As Jennifer Lopez continues her prolific career, she recently released her highly anticipated ninth studio album, This Is Me…Now, a sequel to her 2002 album This Is Me…Then. This project also includes an accompanying film, This Is Me…Now: A Love Story, which offers a musical and visual reimagining of the life events that inspired her new music. Additionally, Lopez’s latest film, Kiss of the Spider Woman, was released on October 10.
From Streisand’s early pursuit of recognition to Lopez’s initial bewilderment at her newfound anonymity, their shared story reminds us that fame, while often sought after, brings with it a complex tapestry of experiences that even the most seasoned legends continue to navigate.