A ‘Bachelor in Paradise’ Hunk Reveals His Biggest Dating Dealbreaker Before Hitting the Beach originally appeared on Parade.
Bachelor in Paradise is about to return for its monumental tenth season, and as one can assume, the cast is filled with the hunkiest men Bachelor Nation has seen to date.
While new contestants will arrive every week — or “bombshells,” as they call them in the Love Island franchise — the men who will be a part of week one are as follows:
Brian Autz — The Bachelorette season 21
Dale Moss — The Bachelorette season 16
Hakeem Moulton — The Bachelorette season 21
Jeremy Simon — The Bachelorette season 21
Jonathon Johnson — The Bachelorette season 21
Justin Glaze — The Bachelorette season 17 and Bachelor in Paradise season 8
Kyle Howard — The Bachelorette season 17
Ricky Marinez — The Bachelorette season 21
Sam McKinney — The Bachelorette season 21
Spencer Conley — The Bachelorette season 21
Ahead of the highly-anticipated show, some of the above contestants sat down with the team at Access Hollywood for an episode of Reality Nightcap, partaking in some rapid-fire questions. While some of said questions were rather lighthearted — such as ” Pool party or time on the beach?” and “Margarita or Piña Colada?” — things got juicy when our favorite Bachelor Nation members were asked their “biggest dating dealbreaker.” Yikes!
Spencer — who is know for being as sweet as can be on Jenn Tran’s season of The Bachelorette — gave a Golden Retriever-esque answer that was just too true to his personality. Keep scrolling to see for yourself.
From the way things sound, the 32-year-old pet portrait entrepreneur just wants a peaceful, loving relationship. Is that too much to ask?
When asked his “biggest dating dealbreaker,” Spencer gushed, “I can’t deal with the whole fighting and make up. I need someone with a fully developed frontal lobe… We’re looking for fully formed, so the person I’m ending up with is probably over the age of 25.”
In the same conversation, Spencer also revealed his biggest red and green flag, admitting that someone who puts their shoes on in “sock, shoe, sock, shoe” order is “crazy,” as opposed to someone who puts their shoes on in “sock, sock, shoe, shoe” order.
When it comes to his biggest green flag, though, the Texas native wants “someone that just treats everyone the same, whether it be a waiter, someone that they’re trying to impress, whatever it may be. Just being kind to people is a huge green flag.”
Naturally sweeping us off of our feet, it safe to say that Bachelor in Paradise was swooning as well, with the reality television series commenting “Kindness as a green flag 🥹” on the TikTok video. Hubba hubba!
Will Spencer manage to find someone who checks all of his boxes, though? To find out for yourself, tune into the premiere of Bachelor in Paradise season 10 when it premieres on July 7 via ABC, or stream it the following day via Hulu.
A ‘Bachelor in Paradise’ Hunk Reveals His Biggest Dating Dealbreaker Before Hitting the Beach first appeared on Parade on Jun 12, 2025
This story was originally reported by Parade on Jun 12, 2025, where it first appeared.
