Kylie Kelce’s daughters may be a long way from their teenage years, but she’s already getting some sound advice.
In a clip from her podcast Not Gonna Lie, the mom of four, 33, received some parenting advice from actress Kate Hudson, 46, while the two discussed their families. Hudson, who is mom to sons Ryder, 21, and Bingham, 13, and daughter Rani, 6, gave Kelce a few nuggets of wisdom for when her daughters get older.
“Ryder’s 21 and I was a young mom with him, so we kind of grew up together,” Hudson began. “And he’s so clued in, and there just was a moment about a year and a half ago, and he was like, ‘You alright?’ And then he shared his perspective on something in my life based around just my schedule.”
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“How busy I was, how much I was putting out — just life things. And he shared his perspective and I realized I raised this son to actually…he’s giving back to me right now. He’s seeing me right now. It’s pretty awesome. So if you put the effort in, it does come back,” she shared.
Later in the clip, the Running Point star had another piece of advice for moms who have older kids.
“And then the only other thing I would say to all moms is let your kids go. Let them f—— go. Don’t hold on. Don’t expect anything of them,” Hudson said.
“The expectation of, ‘Oh, you need to be here for me,’ ” she continued. “When they start getting older, it’s like, no. You’ll never hold onto them. And the second you hold on too tight, it’s going to drive them nuts. They’re going to run. I really think that.”
“Almost push back harder,” adds Kylie, who is mom to daughters Finnley “Finn,” 4 weeks, Bennett, 2, Elliotte, 4, and Wyatt, 5, with husband Jason Kelce.
“Yeah, let them go enjoy their life. Let them be for a bit,” Hudson responds.
“And what you realize is you might go a week or two and they’re not going to call you, but when they do and they need you…” says Hudson.
“You’re still mom,” says Kylie. “Yeah and it’s okay,” the actress responds.
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