Everyone’s Taking Crazy Pills! Who Went Home on ‘Bachelor in Paradise’ 2025 Tonight? originally appeared on Parade.
The stuff hit the fan on Bachelor in Paradise on the Monday, August 11 episode and for once, I am firmly on Brian Autz’s side. What he did was completely appropriate, it was something one of Bailey Brown’s female friends should have done a long time ago, and all the people getting mad about it is gross.
The idea that all men should stand idly by and give some scumbag a pass and not rat him out for his crappy behavior is ludicrous. If a man is treating a woman like garbage and she doesn’t know, you should tell her. Bailey had every right to know, Brian did not make anything up, and Jeremy Simon was never going to tell Bailey, so then she just would have found out on national TV.
Below are all the details on who went home, who stayed and who coupled up, but be warned of spoilers ahead. Don’t keep reading if you don’t want to be spoiled.
Who went home on the Bachelor in Paradise Season 10, episode 7 in 2025 tonight?
Kim Buike
70, Retired Navy captain, Seattle
Joan Vassos’ Golden Bachelorette season 1
Faith Martin
61, Benton City, WA
High school teacher
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Who are the remaining couples on Bachelor in Paradise Season 10 in 2025?
Spencer and Jess
Dale and Kat
Jeremy and Bailey
Brian and Parisa
Allyshia and Sean
Andrew and Alexe
Jonathon and Lea
Keith and Kathy
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What was the second Relationship Test on Bachelor in Paradise Season 10?
The Relationship Test this week put them in isolation booths with headphones on, where they were asked a series of questions. The couple with the most matching answers at the end of the test was the winning couple and the male half of that couple was safe from elimination. But the fun part was if they matched five times with someone other than their partner, those two individuals got to see each other’s identities in the Circle of Truth and were given a chance for a secret rendezvous later that night. Also, the group would get to vote collectively on which man (and therefore couple) would be sent home this week.
Shout out to Alexe for her answer of what type of persona she most likes to role-play in the bedroom: “Batman and Robin.” We don’t know if she was being serious, but either way, that’s hilarious.
The winning couple was Jonathon and Lea, which was funny because of all their drama last week. The non-couple matches were as follows: Allyshia and Andrew, Dale and Parisa, Kim and Kathy, Alexe and Jeremy, Lea and Jeremy, Bailey and Spencer, and Bailey and Brian. In a little bit of a surprise, the show definitely could have started some fireworks by pretending Dale and Allyshia matched and let them have a secret rendezvous, but they didn’t match on enough questions.
None of the couples who matched wanted to rendezvous, but Brian wanted to have his rendezvous with Bailey in order to give her a heads-up on how shady Jeremy has been toward her. Bailey declined the invitation, even though it said, “I just want to talk.”
Bailey rebuffed his invitation at first because she thought Brian was trying to secretly mack on her, but eventually, Brian was able to tell her what went on with Jeremy and Susie. Bailey was obviously distraught and confronted Jeremy about it. Jeremy insisted in a talking-head interview that “things change really quickly in Paradise and now [he ‘s] here for Bailey,” but he can’t even look the camera in the eye. He is a lying liar who lies.
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However, Brian was the one catching all the heat, and he played it all wrong. He came back from talking to Bailey and tried to play dumb, but instead, he should have been defending himself for looking out for Bailey and talking up how Jeremy is the bad guy in this situation — both of which are true. Instead, he played dumb and let Dale start in on how Brian’s “integrity is too high” to tell Bailey, but that is why Dale is a walking red flag.
Brian is 100 percent correct to tell Bailey, Jeremy is a total dirtball, Dale is dirtball No. 2, there is no “bro code” that says you have to keep a dirtball’s secrets at the expense of a nice woman who you consider a friend, and furthermore, the women should have told Bailey the minute they found out.
Dale is a walking red flag, y’all. He and Jeremy are the worst dudes on this show right now. But Brian was super dumb for not owning up to what he did. Lying about it made him look shady.
Meanwhile, Bailey was mad that Alexe knew and didn’t tell her, and Alexe tried to “defend” herself, but she didn’t have a leg to stand on. Alexe should have told her immediately. It was a “if you don’t tell her, I will” situation. Some friend you are, Alexe. She actually whispered at one point, “I feel like a bad friend,” and it’s like — because you are!
Also, Jeremy is only mad about Bailey potentially leaving because he’s going to lose out on the money. You know that’s the only reason.
Bailey eventually worked up the courage to ask Jeremy if he said he would propose to Susie if she came back, and he “swears to God” he didn’t say that, except he totally did, and we all heard it. There are cameras and microphones everywhere, dum-dum.
Bailey took him at his word, and they hugged, and it was gross to watch. C’mon, Bailey. But she did at least protect Brian by telling Jeremy that it wasn’t him who told her. Dale continued to be the worst by playing detective because according to his code, it was so shady if it was one of the men. Again — Dale is a walking red flag.
But everyone started to realize that Brian was lying and they voted him out, which is really unfair because he was not in the wrong here, and I hope when everyone watches this back, they are really embarrassed. Brian is the only person in the right here. I expected better from Spencer. He was one of the people like, “People much closer to Bailey knew and they were letting Jeremy tell her,” but at some point, if NOBODY TELLS HER, then Bailey just looks like a fool on TV. She looks like an absolute clown, and someone should have told her if Jeremy (clearly) wasn’t going to.
FINALLY, Wells Adams spoke some truth in a talking-head interview — he felt like he was taking “crazy pills” in that only Brian was getting fallout from this and NO ONE ELSE WAS. YES. It’s just projection — all the buttheads who knew feel super guilty for not speaking up, and now that someone did, they are villifying him to justify their own choices. “Bro code” does not mean “Douchebag Code.” YES! From where Wells is sitting, Brian is the ONLY ONE DOING THE RIGHT THING HERE.
Yes! This was INSANITY. It’s actually shocking that Brian and Parisa weren’t sent home.
Who is left on Bachelor in Paradise Season 10 in 2025?
Alexe Godin
28, Pediatric speech therapist, New Brunswick, Canada
Grant Ellis’ Bachelor season 29
Allyshia Gupta
29, Interior designer, Wesley Chapel, FL
Grant Ellis’ Bachelor season 29
Andrew Spencer
30, former pro football player, Lake Villa, IL
Katie Thurston’s Bachelorette season 17 and Bachelor in Paradise season 8
Bailey Brown
28, Social media manager, Atlanta, GA
Grant Ellis’ Bachelor season 29
Brian Autz
34, Aesthetics consultant, Boynton Beach, FL
Jenn Tran’s Bachelorette season 21
Dale Moss
36, Former NFL wide receiver, Brandon, SD
Clare Crawley’s Bachelorette season 16
Jeremy Simon
31, Real estate investor, New York
Jenn Tran’s Bachelorette season 21
Jess Edwards
26, Executive assistant, San Diego, CA
Joey Graziadei’s Bachelor season 28
Jonathon Johnson
28, Creative director, Los Angeles
Jenn Trann’s Bachelorette season 21
Kat Izzo
29, Registered nurse, Tampa, FL
Zach Shallcross’ Bachelor season 27 and Bachelor in Paradise season 9
Kathy Swarts
72, Retired educational consultant, Austin, TX
Gerry Turner’s Golden Bachelor season 1
Keith Gordon
63, Girl dad, Columbus, IN
Joan Vassos’ Golden Bachelorette season 1
Lea Cayanan
24, Account manager, Waipahu, HI
Joey Graziadei’s Bachelor season 28
Parisa Shifteh
30, pediatric behavior analyst, Birmingham, MI
Grant Ellis’ Bachelor season 29
Sean McLaughlin
27, Software sales rep, Troy, NY
Charity Lawson’s Bachelorette season 20 and Bachelor in Paradise season 9
Spencer Conley
32, Pet portrait entrepreneur, Dallas, TX
Jenn Tran’s Bachelorette season 21
Bachelor in Paradise airs Monday nights at 8 p.m. ET/PT on ABC.
Everyone’s Taking Crazy Pills! Who Went Home on ‘Bachelor in Paradise’ 2025 Tonight? first appeared on Parade on Aug 12, 2025
This story was originally reported by Parade on Aug 12, 2025, where it first appeared.
